I get the whole getting into my boyfriend and mine relationship. But enough is enough. I get the whole worried thing. My family gets worried about me for everything. Family will always watch over their daughter or son/brother or sister/so on. My boyfriend and his family aren't close like my family and I. Each family is different with their bonds they form.
His family is overly judgmental of me, my family (and even my boyfriend) They say their open minded but they really aren't.
His sister has blamed me for everything then made excuses for some of those blames likes my kids pee'd the bed, or I am PMSing etc. I have stood up for myself on my actions like I always do with any situation. She's gotten into my business with my family, my finances and my past--She said I have the right to know because your dating my brother. She's cursed and yelled at me up and down. She's made rude and inappropriate comments to me, and about me. She has done the same stuff to her own family.
His mom has gotten into my business, told her it isn't her concern and she basically said I am so closed off. She's called me aggressive. Whenever she calls my boyfriend over, my boyfriend asks can my girlfriend come and she said no just you everytime. I've seen them 5 times plus one on Tuesday.
His dad and brother are okay.
I am polite, patient, respectful, considerate, and honest with them. I try and talk with them about light hearted stuff like weather, our day, likes and vacations. But they seem to think they need to know my business. I shouldn't have told them some or answered their serious topics and I wouldn't anymore. School and work are all they talk about its kind of annoying--They ask me the same questions. What are you majoring in? When will you be done? etc. School and work are important to me, not saying that. But theres more then that to get to know someone without getting into their business.
His family is overly judgmental of me, my family (and even my boyfriend) They say their open minded but they really aren't.
His sister has blamed me for everything then made excuses for some of those blames likes my kids pee'd the bed, or I am PMSing etc. I have stood up for myself on my actions like I always do with any situation. She's gotten into my business with my family, my finances and my past--She said I have the right to know because your dating my brother. She's cursed and yelled at me up and down. She's made rude and inappropriate comments to me, and about me. She has done the same stuff to her own family.
His mom has gotten into my business, told her it isn't her concern and she basically said I am so closed off. She's called me aggressive. Whenever she calls my boyfriend over, my boyfriend asks can my girlfriend come and she said no just you everytime. I've seen them 5 times plus one on Tuesday.
His dad and brother are okay.
I am polite, patient, respectful, considerate, and honest with them. I try and talk with them about light hearted stuff like weather, our day, likes and vacations. But they seem to think they need to know my business. I shouldn't have told them some or answered their serious topics and I wouldn't anymore. School and work are all they talk about its kind of annoying--They ask me the same questions. What are you majoring in? When will you be done? etc. School and work are important to me, not saying that. But theres more then that to get to know someone without getting into their business.