My 20 year old girlfriend of two years only talks to me if she is telling me something important or if she's going somewhere (I'm 21). I REALLY want to be able to talk about anything with her and have conversations to get to know each other about topics, hobbies, interests, talking about random things happening in the world and having fun with each other in a conversation.
I just want real conversation and communication. I've always felt that she views our relationship as being more formal and not communicative. She never makes conversation or asks me questions. When I ask her questions about what she's up to and make any type of conversation she gets angry, moody, agitated and violent.
When I discuss how I'm feeling about this, she becomes defensive and undermining.
Is this normal for women to dislike chatting?
I just want real conversation and communication. I've always felt that she views our relationship as being more formal and not communicative. She never makes conversation or asks me questions. When I ask her questions about what she's up to and make any type of conversation she gets angry, moody, agitated and violent.
When I discuss how I'm feeling about this, she becomes defensive and undermining.
Is this normal for women to dislike chatting?