Do most wives go along to hubbies sports to be a spectator/supporter?

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Just wondering, because my husband plays soccer, 15 players in his team, all are married or have girlfriends. But only about 4 or 5 wives or girlfriends come along to the games. I'm there every single week without fail.. wearing the team jacket & cap, cheering on the sidelines, rain hail or shine. I love the game and I love to watch him play. His team calls me their "number 1 supporter". But I was wondering, is it likely that the other wives/girlfriends stay away because THEY dont want to support their hubby/boyfriend... or because the hubby/boyfriend maybe doesnt want them there, and just wants to hang out with the boys. What do you think?
 
Some women are just plain not into sports. Just because a woman does not attend does not mean she does not support him in other ways. Some may have to work or stay home with their children. Support comes in all kinds of shapes forms and fashions.
 
Many have probably been around a long time and just get board with it. I always stayed with my husband even when I didn't want to. I have always supported him, and the rest of his friends applauded me for that, but to me it was what I was suppose to do! He's my husband I have to show him how proud I am of him!
 
Usually wives do that kind of stuff in the beginning of the marriage but it usually fades away once they are busy with children, etc. If you like to cheer your husband on, go ahead no one is going to stop you. He is lucky to have you as a wife.Do what your mind and heart says to do.
 
Not every guy wants their wife to tag along with them when they are at work. If he was sitting at a desk in some corporate office, would you follow him there to cheer him on as well? Believe it or not, there are wives who interfere with work - like calling 5 times a day or showing up unexpectedly.

If your husband doesn't mind your being there for him, then why be concerned with anyone else and what their problems are? It's non-sequetor (as the Romans said it - it doesn't equate). Your'e being concerned with what and why others do or do not things tends to make you sound like a busy body. Just keep on doing what you are doing and don't mind what others do or do not do and I think everyone will get along just fine.
 
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