I am a girl and my best guy friend confessed to me that he is insecure. I think a lot of it has to do with the fact that his mother and father gave him up to be raised by someone else when he was a baby and he didn't have a real relationship with his dad until he was 17 or 18.
Anyway...he was talking to this really great girl that loved him a lot. He even told her that he loved her and after 2 years of making him wait...she finally shared herself with him. A few weeks later, he told her he wasn't ready for a relationship and broke her heart. She changed her number and wouldn't accept any calls from him. About 2 months later he said he was moving in with and getting engaged to this girl he used to date when he was a little younger that aborted their child (back then) without even telling him she was pregnant. They lasted all of two months. I'm looking at him like WTF is wrong with you and WTF are you doing?
He always talks about how he wants to get married and he's jealous of his married friends. I'm just trying to figure out wth is going on with him because it seems like he's just making dumb decisions. I think it's because he's insecure and looking for a relationship to validate him. What do you think? Why would he mess things up with the great girl...that all of us - his friends - loved and thought was a good match, to go be with some girl who is obviously not? I really need to knock some sense into him.
Anyway...he was talking to this really great girl that loved him a lot. He even told her that he loved her and after 2 years of making him wait...she finally shared herself with him. A few weeks later, he told her he wasn't ready for a relationship and broke her heart. She changed her number and wouldn't accept any calls from him. About 2 months later he said he was moving in with and getting engaged to this girl he used to date when he was a little younger that aborted their child (back then) without even telling him she was pregnant. They lasted all of two months. I'm looking at him like WTF is wrong with you and WTF are you doing?
He always talks about how he wants to get married and he's jealous of his married friends. I'm just trying to figure out wth is going on with him because it seems like he's just making dumb decisions. I think it's because he's insecure and looking for a relationship to validate him. What do you think? Why would he mess things up with the great girl...that all of us - his friends - loved and thought was a good match, to go be with some girl who is obviously not? I really need to knock some sense into him.