Do I wait for my GF to make a move regarding sex, or do I?

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Haydon

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I dunno! I would rather if she brings it up. I know she thinks about it. It's not that I have a massive sexual desire, but it has got to come up soon. So do I make the first move, and perhaps bring up some personal things, like their view on when it is right and if they would. Do I make the move or not?
It's weird, because we both want each other by the looks of things! But to nervous really!
 
Please don't get embarrassed. She will be nervous too, you are better off just coming straight out with it. Ask her her views on sex, and tell her that you love her and would like to have a sexual relationship with her if she feels the same. It sounds like she is keen too, but girls don't want to look like a hussy. Just have a good talk about it, once you know how you both feel then you can learn all the rest as you go along.
 
move he hand to your private parts while you kiss each other or just onto your body as long as you initiate it

if she's interested in going further that is all the invitation she needs

if she pulls her hands away from you that means NO
she's not ready to gothere yet
 
maybe make a move on her by kissing her but laying next to her at the same time and see what she dose and if she doesn't do anything as her dose she feel ready or not?
its the only way u find out
shes your girlfriend she must want it or maybe hint little things to her about how u are feeling :)

hope this helps

Miss Mary Munchkin Murkin

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In this situation you are going to have to bring it up, basically say it in a way where she thinks you don't care either way. But umm, basically talk to her about your feelings for one another and make sure that you kinda towards the end of the conversation, say "I don't care either way, but i was wondering about how YOU felt about bringing our relationship to the next level". Kinda make it sound like you want her imput. The whole point of having a lengthly conversation about how you feel about each other is to set the mood, and to get her to feel loved and important, so that when you pop the question up, she will be more likely to respond in a more positive manner. It sucks, but in a relationship, both the male and the female need to think that their feelings don't matter and they only want the best for their partner. Because that way, your relationship will end up being a more honest one.

Remember say,"I don't care either way, but i was wondering about how you felt about bringing our relationship to the next level". Seriously try to make it sound like you would like to but don't care too much, and you were wondering how she felt about it. This way your not asking her for sex, your just invoking thought, thought that may very well lead to sex. Hope I helped man.
 
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