Sky Weales
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this is kinda long but please read it i need some advice.
well i am in love, and i dont know if he loves me. you dont need any more then these details.
i cant tell because well there is an obstical in the way (i am not going to mention), but we talk but not alot because well i try to be with other people when i am around him because i am scared ill say the wrong thing, but when we talk we can make good conversation. once my mom was in the hospital and he came over cuz i was having a hard time dealing and we whatched tv until like 1 in the morning. he always makes jokes and stuff with me and stuff. we always share drinks and food and like i said he always makes jokes and stuff but his personality is funny, he always has been. i know that these could be just friends signs but they could be signs of love as well. some reasons i think not are because he is religiose (I am not and his parents and grandparents are REALLY religiose), there is a bigger age difference (7years 2months), and i am not the prettiest thing in the world. the thing is i really want to tell him but i dont know if i should. there is a really big obstical in the way that would cause a hole lot of problems and i dont know how well i can handle the rejection and/or the problems. i can not stress this big obstacle enough, its a huge obstical which would contribute to him not agreing with it. either way i want to tell him but should i?? i would wait till after xmas but should i tell him, i just dont know. and if so then how do i tell him!? write a letter (which would be alot easier!! i dont know if i could handle telling him to his face and i dont know the next time ill see him next because he moved farther away recently and i might see him in january, with the rest of his very religiose family-mom,dad,sis-) or should i try to tell him to his face or should i write an email (i dont think he has one but he might) or should i tell him over phone or what??? this is really a big problem with me so i need your help.
i know its long and thank you for reading
well i am in love, and i dont know if he loves me. you dont need any more then these details.
i cant tell because well there is an obstical in the way (i am not going to mention), but we talk but not alot because well i try to be with other people when i am around him because i am scared ill say the wrong thing, but when we talk we can make good conversation. once my mom was in the hospital and he came over cuz i was having a hard time dealing and we whatched tv until like 1 in the morning. he always makes jokes and stuff with me and stuff. we always share drinks and food and like i said he always makes jokes and stuff but his personality is funny, he always has been. i know that these could be just friends signs but they could be signs of love as well. some reasons i think not are because he is religiose (I am not and his parents and grandparents are REALLY religiose), there is a bigger age difference (7years 2months), and i am not the prettiest thing in the world. the thing is i really want to tell him but i dont know if i should. there is a really big obstical in the way that would cause a hole lot of problems and i dont know how well i can handle the rejection and/or the problems. i can not stress this big obstacle enough, its a huge obstical which would contribute to him not agreing with it. either way i want to tell him but should i?? i would wait till after xmas but should i tell him, i just dont know. and if so then how do i tell him!? write a letter (which would be alot easier!! i dont know if i could handle telling him to his face and i dont know the next time ill see him next because he moved farther away recently and i might see him in january, with the rest of his very religiose family-mom,dad,sis-) or should i try to tell him to his face or should i write an email (i dont think he has one but he might) or should i tell him over phone or what??? this is really a big problem with me so i need your help.
i know its long and thank you for reading