She is currently living with her father, THERE is no custody agreement we will be going to court b4 the end of the summer to see who gets full custody, he is ignoring my phone calls messages and text, he refuses to talk to me, he says he needs to wait to see what her councilor says b4 he lets me Speak with her, he is trying to be in controll, do i have the right to find out what councilor she is speaking with and what they are speaking about?