Helloooo nurse
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Like many others, I've always wondered why nice guys date mean girls? (And i guess goes the same for why nice girls date losers). I've learned so much this year, in my mid 20's and just done with guys. Doesn't matter how long it'll take, I'm just gonna chill, have fun w. my life until the right man (of integrity and respect...a true gentleman) comes along... and "ruins" (lol) my other plans. I'm done w. "little boys" who talk the talk but don't walk the walk; become easily insecure and cannot appreciate a lady who is ambitious/steady or independent yet loyal/committed.
So If I've finally stopped tolerating "losers", do guys eventually realize and stop tolerating "mean girls"? I look at these nice guys and it's (sometimes) shocking when they run down exes (who are known to be sooo high maintenance and bitchy). Do they eventually just stop chasing girls and just wait for the "right lady" to come along?
(I appreciate men who are genuinely good guys... who also know how to appreciate a good woman when he knows it).
And this has alot to do w. maturity, right?
So If I've finally stopped tolerating "losers", do guys eventually realize and stop tolerating "mean girls"? I look at these nice guys and it's (sometimes) shocking when they run down exes (who are known to be sooo high maintenance and bitchy). Do they eventually just stop chasing girls and just wait for the "right lady" to come along?
(I appreciate men who are genuinely good guys... who also know how to appreciate a good woman when he knows it).
And this has alot to do w. maturity, right?