Enigmatic Poet
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I do not like to flirt really much with females. I can, not that good I guess, but females have flirted with me before and just feel like they are mind games to me. But, when I am really interested in a female, I don't really flirt at all. I like to communicate with the female, actually make her laugh, compliment her, etc. I mean, if I was given a chance to be in a relationship, yeah I would flirt since I want to make the relationship fun and laughter, but also serious. But, I just don't see myself as being one of those guys who flirt a lot with females, even if they are friends with them or not. I know people do it for fun, but I guess since the way flirting has been for me as being mind games in my past, I just don't do it at all because I don't want it to be that either, a mind game.
Is it weird in not wanting to flirt and just actually get to know the female and not always say something about her features and such? Some might find it boring that I don't flirt, but I don't know, just prefer making her laugh and try to get to know her and not flirt. Fun, but feels like I don't take the time serious with her if I would flirt with her. I can show interest without flirting, but seems in what people see in me since I don't flirt, I will never have a relationship. Is it weird?
Is it weird in not wanting to flirt and just actually get to know the female and not always say something about her features and such? Some might find it boring that I don't flirt, but I don't know, just prefer making her laugh and try to get to know her and not flirt. Fun, but feels like I don't take the time serious with her if I would flirt with her. I can show interest without flirting, but seems in what people see in me since I don't flirt, I will never have a relationship. Is it weird?