Do cheating men try to date their "old" wives?

sash

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I'm just wondering. when men cheat or claim to "fall in love" with someone other than their spouse.
Do they end up finding the same kind of people?
Found my husband is involved in an affair. From what I'm sensing, she seems to be the OLD me.
The me we started with when we first got together years ago. (coincidently around the same age she is now)
I would never fully go back to that me again (that me was happy and positive for a bit, but then go negative, or switch back ... a lot of the old me didnt work.) so we evolved and changed.
me for the better (he... seems not to learn from his mistakes)
I've learned to deal with things more maturely, he seems to run when something doesnt go his way.
I'm planning on divorcing him. But I was just curious as to if
they do find someone similar to what they use to have - or do they find someone opposite?
 
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