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enola gniyd
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she took my then 8 mth old son 1000 miles from me.I was his primary caregiver.She completely abandoned him for the most part of his first 8 mths of life,intead running around to restarauns,bars,shopping trips and crafts with the "Red Hat Society" women she worked with.She worked a part time job 3 hrs a day.I worked from home earning enohg to pay the bills but we needed to get caught up on taxes so she couldnt quit her job yet.anyway,her parents came to visit for ten days and all of the sudden I was accused of "keeping the baby from her" because we had a daily routine of feedings,walks etc.I ALWAYS tried to include mommy and she wanted nothing to do with us.
Anyway,she took off with the baby 1000 miles to her parents.I filed divorce only because I saw she was trying to file and i wanted to keep it in the GA courts where we live.
She allowed me NO contact,not even so much as a phone call or photo of my son for 4 Months until a divorce hearing with a temp visitation for me to obtain my son for 20 days was agreed to and Judge signed it.It has been 6 mths since she origionally left.She has been letting me talk to my now 14 mth old son a couple times a week for the past 5 weeks,but anytime I bring up a settlement,or what would she like to see as far as me getting physical time with my son she hangs up on me.She is making up all kinds of lies against me.I have affadavits filed with the court from ten witnessess 8 of them are our neighbors of 4,6 and ten years.
I do not know how to handle this situation for my Son.
I believe he needs me in his life in more than just sending money.
I am trying to settle so that we keep the home and i pay for it.She told me she wants that,but she wants me to obtain a motgage to get it ou of her name.My credit is not that good due to i always put my money into building her credit over the past 12 yrs.She knows this.I am also self employed.But i thik if it goes to a judge he is likely to give me full custody or joint as priary and her as unfit as I want us to have psyche evaluations,among other things i have proving her mental distress like her own writings online and confession she made to her friend,our neighbor a psycholgist that wrote about it in a notarised affadavit and my wife is under wellbutrin but only took 5 pills of a 1yr supply.
Anyway,I don't know how to deal with this for my sons sake.Any suggestions?
Anyway,she took off with the baby 1000 miles to her parents.I filed divorce only because I saw she was trying to file and i wanted to keep it in the GA courts where we live.
She allowed me NO contact,not even so much as a phone call or photo of my son for 4 Months until a divorce hearing with a temp visitation for me to obtain my son for 20 days was agreed to and Judge signed it.It has been 6 mths since she origionally left.She has been letting me talk to my now 14 mth old son a couple times a week for the past 5 weeks,but anytime I bring up a settlement,or what would she like to see as far as me getting physical time with my son she hangs up on me.She is making up all kinds of lies against me.I have affadavits filed with the court from ten witnessess 8 of them are our neighbors of 4,6 and ten years.
I do not know how to handle this situation for my Son.
I believe he needs me in his life in more than just sending money.
I am trying to settle so that we keep the home and i pay for it.She told me she wants that,but she wants me to obtain a motgage to get it ou of her name.My credit is not that good due to i always put my money into building her credit over the past 12 yrs.She knows this.I am also self employed.But i thik if it goes to a judge he is likely to give me full custody or joint as priary and her as unfit as I want us to have psyche evaluations,among other things i have proving her mental distress like her own writings online and confession she made to her friend,our neighbor a psycholgist that wrote about it in a notarised affadavit and my wife is under wellbutrin but only took 5 pills of a 1yr supply.
Anyway,I don't know how to deal with this for my sons sake.Any suggestions?