discussing exgfs with current gf?

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all my previous gfs were very insecure and into tests and playing at investigator. so naturally they would ask about all my previous relationships, and i was more than happy to oblige them, altho i did find it only furthered their insecurity and caused more silly insecurity based arguments/tests. my current gf hasnt asked me a single thing about any of my previous relationships and i feel almost like im lying to her to not tell her anything, but that would mean volunteering out of the blue, and maybe she doesnt want to hear about it? i just feel like theres so much about who i am, and my life, wrapped up unfortunately in exgfs, that she's only getting half teh story and not really finding out who the real me is.
 
Try to avoid relating facts from prior relationships with a new gf. She may develop insecurities. She will ask; they usually do. Remind her that you are with her, and explain that the gfs from the past are in the past; she is your only concern.
 
NO NO NO, don't tell her anything unless she asks.
Than she'll think you're a dickhead.
 
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