discuss about the cause of child abuse and the way to overcome?

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i want to discuss the cause of child abuse and the way to overcome
got any opinion to me?
 
im glad you asked the question. i was thinking that having been around for over 2000 years we should have figured out a solution an cause. lots of abuse comes from people that have been abused nad they just repeat a cycle. byt not all do . repeating happens because of lack of empathy and inablity to get needs met or a case of them trying to find control or meaning by repeating. overcoming it is hard too because people have a hard time believing people could do such a thing . parents accused of it will usually get benefit of doubt for this but not for crimes like murder or robbery. i think there is a switch in their heads that turns of the usual guilt response. solving it.
partially requires a teaching of skills that will allow you to cope with emotions in ways other than with sex or eating or drugs. the other aspect is that as psychic skills develop people wont be able to hide their behavior.
 
Abuse is the issue and it may be of a child or an adult. It may be physical or emotional. Physical is obvious and if it leaves marks it can be prosecuted. Emotional is less obvious and if it is severe enough to alter a person's behavior and demeanor then it has already caused permanent damage to the person. If the person is removed from the source of the abuse, then the person may cease the behavior, but the damage is not behavioral, it takes place within a person's MIND realm. And it remains there unless it is competently removed by the proper therapy...and those capable of providing competent therapy are rare. Perhaps one in a thousand today.

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It's usually from a parents childhood problems or experiences. Could be from a rift between child and parent that escalates. Often kids and teens can be awkward. Often they want more than can be offered. Parents are often over protective of their children. Leaving the child feeling choked or deprived of his or her freedom. Often resentment sets in. Which ultimately can lead to abuse. If a child feels they're being abused. They have a number of options. Hot lines are offered, tell a teacher, call CPS (Child Protection Services) If abuse is found in the home. The child is removed. To a youth center or group home. Until the court decides the best course of action. Could be a temporary separation or until the child is of adult age,
 
I was abused as a child and came to a point in my life where I could forgive. It became obvious to me that this person was badly disturbed. And now I'm okay with it. I wish this person didn't have nightmares about it today, but they do. It's just sad. But, thankfully, I learned to forgive instead of hate. I know that may sound strange to you. But that's they way it happens, to those of us fortunate enough to put our faith in a merciful God. At least, that's who gets the credit for it. It's not a religious thing. It's really the universal force of agape Love. There's no doctrine to muck it up. Take care.
 
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