So long story short. Its new years, we meet, I play hard to get, we kiss a little then I disappear off to another club. (I guess I should preface by saying I'm not interested in a relationship with this man or anyone else.) We then run into each other at the next establishment and I give him my number. The whole night I was very forward and confidant defiantly the one in charge in a sexy fun way that he was into. I let him take the next step and I get a text the next day. I actually forget to text back and a day or two goes by. We then start up a sexy and friendly texting interchange and decide to go on a date. He picks me up were cute and first date-y I actually have a little flash that maybe I could like this guy, which hasn't happened much lately. He opens doors, puts his hand on the small of my back in that perfect way and pays for a pretty nice dinner. We have a lot of intelligent conversation and at the end it just doesn't feel right to kiss and say goodnight. I invite him up.
I GUESS this is where I went wrong. without getting into much detail he spent the night. I guess as a woman Its my mistake to sleep with someone I dont know very well just hoping that they will have the decency to treat me like a human being the next day. We had an AWSOME night and I dont regret that. I just wish he had the balls to return the ONE very casual text I sent or even to be modest enough to contemplate that I may not be a commitment hound and simply like the idea of having some casual fun that also includes a small amount of personable communication.
My question is: its been a week and WE haven't communicated at all. I'm I being sexist to assume I cant call him? I guess im used to being pursued and my pride is damaged at this point. I would tell any friend that this lack of communication is a clear "i never want to see you again" signal. Am I right? I'm pretty sure I would not answer his call at this point. Am I being harsh?
I would blow It off if it wasnt such an awesome night. I got played at my own game!!
Oh P.S. He is 10 years older then me. Could this be part of it?
I GUESS this is where I went wrong. without getting into much detail he spent the night. I guess as a woman Its my mistake to sleep with someone I dont know very well just hoping that they will have the decency to treat me like a human being the next day. We had an AWSOME night and I dont regret that. I just wish he had the balls to return the ONE very casual text I sent or even to be modest enough to contemplate that I may not be a commitment hound and simply like the idea of having some casual fun that also includes a small amount of personable communication.
My question is: its been a week and WE haven't communicated at all. I'm I being sexist to assume I cant call him? I guess im used to being pursued and my pride is damaged at this point. I would tell any friend that this lack of communication is a clear "i never want to see you again" signal. Am I right? I'm pretty sure I would not answer his call at this point. Am I being harsh?
I would blow It off if it wasnt such an awesome night. I got played at my own game!!
Oh P.S. He is 10 years older then me. Could this be part of it?