who keeps asking her for joints (weed) there is a problem with drugs and the like there, as it is a half-way house for drop outs ex prisoners and so forth. We have tried to help by letting her stay here for a full year beforehand and got her a place to stay, but now I'm beggining to feel extremely annoyed as she wants to come back to live with us, and quite frankly we don't want her back. My SIL is upset by this, but we have our own family including our young son. If she screws up this place, (which is what she wants we believe) she will be homeless, am I right to put my foot down or am I being selfish, in the whole year she lived with us it was overcrowded. Why should we be burdened with her?