I am really confused. I have liked one of my friends for a year now. we have always flirted, and he's always just been really nice and genuine to me throughout our whole 'friendship.' nothing really physical happened until recently (idk if we just didn't have an opportunity or what), when he ASKED to kiss me after one really really great night. The kiss was GREAT and really passionate. he even told my best friend about it the next day saying "dude, i kissed bella last night! it was REALLY good--it just flowed." she said he sounded really excited about it--so i started to put two and two together and i was like "hey, maybe he's just shy, maybe he likes me TOO?!" so, i got really excited about this whole deal.
WELL, we live an hour apart at the moment bc i'm in college right now, but we will be living in the same city over the summer. He told my best friend randomly one day that "Next time Bella's in town, I'm kissing her RIGHT when i see her!" This made me feel really good. But I was incredibly hurt to find out that he had SEX with somebody else?! Um, what?! I guess he doesn't like me?! I thought he was freaking SHY.
He and my friend work together, and at work, they always talk about their sex lives or whatnot. He told her that he really didn't enjoy the sex, and it was just really awkward. but STILL, is him liking me just a figment of my imagination?! Should I just MOVE on--because I don't want to mean nothing to him--he sure means A LOT to me. I just don't want something like this to ruin such a great friendship we had, but I can't help but get my emotions involved after I hear stuff like this....
What do you think?
WELL, we live an hour apart at the moment bc i'm in college right now, but we will be living in the same city over the summer. He told my best friend randomly one day that "Next time Bella's in town, I'm kissing her RIGHT when i see her!" This made me feel really good. But I was incredibly hurt to find out that he had SEX with somebody else?! Um, what?! I guess he doesn't like me?! I thought he was freaking SHY.
He and my friend work together, and at work, they always talk about their sex lives or whatnot. He told her that he really didn't enjoy the sex, and it was just really awkward. but STILL, is him liking me just a figment of my imagination?! Should I just MOVE on--because I don't want to mean nothing to him--he sure means A LOT to me. I just don't want something like this to ruin such a great friendship we had, but I can't help but get my emotions involved after I hear stuff like this....
What do you think?