did this happen to you in high school, please help?

yoyo

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pretty much all your friends left?? there is this one girl in my grade who is the type of person who goes around and minipulates all the weak people. my best friend ever is going through a rough time in her life and this is her third time trying to be friends with that girl, however this time she just seems to have forgotten about me. also when she started hanging out with the other girl she took another two of my friends and the best guy friend ever becasue he really really liked my friend. i mean seriously, i ahve been good friends with him for about five or six years but he just stopped talking to me, like now when he calls instead of long conversations he just says he has to go five minutes in.
also there is the fact that like 3 people moved and then my other really close friend just changed, over summer she has become a whole new her and when ever she talks to me like she is better than me.

it just seems as though everyone has moved on and forgotten about me...did that happen to you? how can it be fixed?
 
Of course I had it done to me but it happened in middle school. I had a group of friends, there was 5 girls including me. And one day, they decided to turn their backs on me for no reason and left me alone. I tried to talk to them but they just ignored me. Have you tried talking to your old friends? Try that and see if it gets YOU anywhere.

What helped me is that I started meeting new people and doing various clubs, etc. I got to know other people that I never talked to a lot better. Soon later, I had new friendships that were formed. I know it's hard to meet new people but it's worth the try! Sometimes, old friendships can't be "fixed". I gave up on my old friends. They were too much drama for me anyways. But go out and meet new people!

By the way, real and true friends wouldn't backstab you and wouldn't leave you alone by yourself.
 
i feel your pain
everybody says highshcool is a blast
but its not
it sucks
i have like no friends
and it not that easy making friends..for me anyway

the only way to fix it is talk to other people. try to become friends
i know its not easy but if you do it i will too
 
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