My ex fiance and I got back together several months ago after a couple years apart (broke up because he wanted to get married right away, I wanted to wait and finish school, but we stayed best friends). Anyway, things have been great, we've had a lot of fun, but there is a girl he hung out with briefly before we got back together he claims nothing is going on with anymore, said she's annoying, they barely talk, etc. She is a fitness model and they met at the gym. Anyway, he refuses to add me as his facebook friend or say that he's in a relationship. The other night I saw that he had written on this girls facebook page, "I haven't seen you in forever! I miss you :-( " It upset me and I told him it was inappropriate.
He said I took it way out of context, spent Christmas night not with me but taking shots with friends, and then broke up with me this morning because I was too "jealous and insecure." I told him he was telling me one thing and her another (telling me he thinks she's annoying, telling her he misses her) and he just said, "You took it out of context. She's a friend. I barely talk to her. I didn't want to lose all my friends just bc we started dating."
Did I overreact, or was he just looking for an excuse to end things? (The facebook thing wasn't a huge deal, I just wanted him to be more open with people about being together with me. Most guys are excited to be in a new relationship and tell people about it)
He claims "everyone" knows we were together, but I know for a fact that's not true. This girl doesn't, and neither do most of his female friends.
Also, when we started dating he pulled up her facebook profile to show me pictuers of her and said my body could look like hers if I worked out hard enough. So he knows I'm kind of insecure when it comes to her based on that.
He said I took it way out of context, spent Christmas night not with me but taking shots with friends, and then broke up with me this morning because I was too "jealous and insecure." I told him he was telling me one thing and her another (telling me he thinks she's annoying, telling her he misses her) and he just said, "You took it out of context. She's a friend. I barely talk to her. I didn't want to lose all my friends just bc we started dating."
Did I overreact, or was he just looking for an excuse to end things? (The facebook thing wasn't a huge deal, I just wanted him to be more open with people about being together with me. Most guys are excited to be in a new relationship and tell people about it)
He claims "everyone" knows we were together, but I know for a fact that's not true. This girl doesn't, and neither do most of his female friends.
Also, when we started dating he pulled up her facebook profile to show me pictuers of her and said my body could look like hers if I worked out hard enough. So he knows I'm kind of insecure when it comes to her based on that.