Yesterday my fiancee's family was having a Baptism for a newborn baby then afterwards was a brunch at a country club. The whole time we were at the brunch my fiancee constantly wanted to hold my hand and drag me around, which I didn't mind that much but eventually I felt awkward because all he wanted to do was talk with the guys about work and fishing and all kinds of guy conversation. I looked around and felt like I was the only chick who wasn't socializing and being stuck by her man's side while being bored to tears. Plus, I felt like why should I be around when the men can have their time? So by the end of the afternoon when we were getting ready to leave, once again my fiancee dragged me around so we can say good bye but he was saying good bye to the guys and talking and talking and talking about guy things soooo I decided I wanted to say good bye to the girls and have some girl talk. I felt like dead weight just standing there attached to his hand while he went on talking to the guys.
Well, when I did that he took a huge fit and said why did I leave him and we should've said good bye together. Meanwhile everyone else wasn't glued to their partners saying good bye. But of course he made it seem like I was the ONLY one and I should never have left him. He wouldn't talk to me all night long because of it. Did I miss something? I feel like every time we go to one of his family's functions I can never get to know his female relatives and make friends because I have to BE BY HIS SIDE. This time I wanted to put my foot down and socialize without being his puppet. He is accusing me of never wanting to be near him or be seen with him which is absolutely insane seeing how he never lets me do anything without him so there is never a time when we're not together. And he also says I don't love him anymore. Is it me or is he being a bit dramatic and mental about the situation?
Well, when I did that he took a huge fit and said why did I leave him and we should've said good bye together. Meanwhile everyone else wasn't glued to their partners saying good bye. But of course he made it seem like I was the ONLY one and I should never have left him. He wouldn't talk to me all night long because of it. Did I miss something? I feel like every time we go to one of his family's functions I can never get to know his female relatives and make friends because I have to BE BY HIS SIDE. This time I wanted to put my foot down and socialize without being his puppet. He is accusing me of never wanting to be near him or be seen with him which is absolutely insane seeing how he never lets me do anything without him so there is never a time when we're not together. And he also says I don't love him anymore. Is it me or is he being a bit dramatic and mental about the situation?