This is the story ....5 years ago i met a man through mutual friends,we got on well,things happened etc.
He has two kids with his ex ,1 is 5 and the other is 3.They split up when the baby was two months old.
He started seeing this other girl for a year,we kept in touch although he told me he was still single.
They broke up and me and him started to see each other,started a clean slate,he would drive over to see me and we were "together for 7 months" he told me about his ex who he has kids with,that she and her mum were trying to stop him seeing the kids,and it was making him ill.
Anyway he told me he loved me,for my birthday he got me some perfume.
Then i found out through facebook that he had been living with his ex who he has kids with for a few months and they were back together.
I told him i knew he denied it and then cut me off.
Stopped replying to my texts and that was it ...i dont understand why he did this,why drive all the way over ,..we didnt have sex everytime.He told me he loved me all the time,pleased we got together,glad i was his girlfriend,he was the one who said "are we a couple now"i dont get it .Why did he get back with her.
Since then he added me on facebook and weve chatted,i seen him at a wedding he was talking to me then he was nudging me everytime he walked past and hugged me.
Then i deleted him from facebook,he messaged me asking why ?and then he asked how i was...i replied im great ,hows you but he never replied back,
Did he ever love me care for me.Was it the kids that made him go back to her when he told me about her trying to take his kids away.
I stilll love him
If it was sex he had her so why come to me and why drive 40 minutes to see me?and now after all this time why does he care if im on his facebook ?I do know hes cheated on this girl before me whilst she was pregnant and when he was seeing another ex he came to see me (i didnt know about her,he said shes a friend)
Hes best friend said "hes my best mate,i love him to bits but he can be a total idiot(he said a swear word)keep your distance ,for your own good."
help?
He has two kids with his ex ,1 is 5 and the other is 3.They split up when the baby was two months old.
He started seeing this other girl for a year,we kept in touch although he told me he was still single.
They broke up and me and him started to see each other,started a clean slate,he would drive over to see me and we were "together for 7 months" he told me about his ex who he has kids with,that she and her mum were trying to stop him seeing the kids,and it was making him ill.
Anyway he told me he loved me,for my birthday he got me some perfume.
Then i found out through facebook that he had been living with his ex who he has kids with for a few months and they were back together.
I told him i knew he denied it and then cut me off.
Stopped replying to my texts and that was it ...i dont understand why he did this,why drive all the way over ,..we didnt have sex everytime.He told me he loved me all the time,pleased we got together,glad i was his girlfriend,he was the one who said "are we a couple now"i dont get it .Why did he get back with her.
Since then he added me on facebook and weve chatted,i seen him at a wedding he was talking to me then he was nudging me everytime he walked past and hugged me.
Then i deleted him from facebook,he messaged me asking why ?and then he asked how i was...i replied im great ,hows you but he never replied back,
Did he ever love me care for me.Was it the kids that made him go back to her when he told me about her trying to take his kids away.
I stilll love him
If it was sex he had her so why come to me and why drive 40 minutes to see me?and now after all this time why does he care if im on his facebook ?I do know hes cheated on this girl before me whilst she was pregnant and when he was seeing another ex he came to see me (i didnt know about her,he said shes a friend)
Hes best friend said "hes my best mate,i love him to bits but he can be a total idiot(he said a swear word)keep your distance ,for your own good."
help?