Was it because he wasn't attracted to me, was still in love with his ex, or he had some kind of weird hate for me? I felt like a punching bag. I dated a guy who ended up being still in love with his ex. I found out when I dumped him. Sex was bad - he pounded away so hard it hurt for days afterwards, he never touched my body, he kissed very occasionally with pursed lips, and he left straight afterwards. Why did he have sex like this? It happened five times then I left.