in 7th grade some people(populars) were really mean to me. i am now 18 years old and my opinion of them hasn't changed. my race played a big part in it. ther first look was that i was a black girl. than they tore me down from there. its gonna stick with me for life. so now i try to be all smiley and aproachable so so than there is more to me to see.
i do not know exactly what do you want to ask ,but "not the first impression is the right one"
for example you want to employ somebody -but he is emotive and acts not very impressive ,that does not mean that he is not a very capable worker