Debating whether or not to get married before deployed?

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First Id like to say I am very impressed with the accuracy and intelligiance of this site.... (I know this question sounds bad)

If any of you have personal opinions about whether or not this is a smart move Id like to hear..
Active Duty USAF for 2 years
known the girl for 3 she lives with me but pressuring me with the ultimatum of making a decision before I leave.. What do you think?
Been active duty USAF for 2 years k
 
ur only in the USAF, no offense or anything, but i doubt ur gunna be getting shot or anything.

marry her if u really love her and if she really loves u back, u dont need to come back home after a year of deployment to find her screwing some other guy. make sure shes able to handle being alone for that period of time. its a big thing to consider. its a matter of trust. but DONT think u have to marry her just because ur leaving to deploy, thats BS. there shouldnt be any pressure. if its bound to happen, it will happen.

my girlfriend pulled the same thing on me haha. but her reasoning was for security reasons, ive dated her since my freshman year of high school till now, its been 5 years. she just wanted the ring on her finger before i left so she can feel settled down.
 
don't get married just for the extra money. get married because you intend to marry her anyway.

also, keep in mind that if you are not married, she has no official access to the base or any support from the military.

also, getting married means she has access to all your pay and material possessions..and too many people have come back from a deployment to find somebody moved in to their house sleeping in their bed, wearing their clothes and playing a Wii bought with their money.

In other words, don't get married becuase she's pressuring you to. get married because you love each other and it makes sense to( and not just because you are about to deploy).
 
I did it.

DO NOT DO IT.

When you are gone for a year people change. She spent all my money then left me.
 
My opinion is that it isn't fair to her to be married to someone in a war.
 
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