So im kind of in a bind. I just recently found out im pregnant,not sure how far along though because I have been having normal periods every month and ive heard this is happens. Even if i wasn't that far along I would never abort it because even though getting pregnant was a mistake on my end its not the baby's fault and it deserves to live 
BUT.. however there is a problem.. there are two different guys ive been with at the end of '08 to now aug '09. the first guy and I broke up in April'09 and then at the end of may i started dating the second guy and stupidly on my part we had a sexual relationship right away.
After the first guy and I broke up I went to the doctor to take a pregnancy test and got checked out for any STD's this was about a few days before the second guy and I started dating, I just wanted to make sure i was clean and safe and not pregnant and the tests came back negative..so into the first week of june is when i had sex with the second guy and I had an accident with my birth control which i had just got on for the very first time so i was new to it. I decided to wait untill july to see if i had my period and i did.
but now at the end of August i find out im pregnant I even had a normal period this month but my mom and I noticed that im getting bigger in my stomache and plus i had alot of the signs like swollen breasts and mood swings.
Im just really worried whos baby it could be.
If its the first guy's baby that would not be good, one because he's moved to cali and secondly, he treated me badly and thats why I ended it with him and I would never want my child to have a father like that.
If it was his do I have to tell him even if i decided to keep the baby?
and if I decided to give my baby up would I have to tell him?
I really dont want him apart of this kids life and Im not sure if i have that right and yes were both over 18.
As for guy number two, I really hope that its his kid, he's a sweet guy and I know he would be there for me and support me whether i kept the baby or gave it up, even though me and him are not together we are still really close friends and our families are very close and all in all the baby would have a very loving family..
I have an appt. for an ultra sound in a few days and im very anxious to see how far along I am..
i know i shouldnt have been with two guys so close together as well and I am not happy with myself for doing so, but life is life and im trying to figure out whats best for my child, not for me.
but anyways I have not told either guy yet because I dont want to get their hopes up, or down I just seriously hope its not the first guys child.. and im really nervous..
whos do you think it is?
if it was the second guys the most id be is 12 weeks about and im already showing a slight bump, i am also a very tiny petite girl to.
and please dont judge me im not hoping its the second guys baby because i want to be with him or anything, its just that he would be a great father, were already friends, our families our close and the baby would have SUCH a better life.
BUT.. however there is a problem.. there are two different guys ive been with at the end of '08 to now aug '09. the first guy and I broke up in April'09 and then at the end of may i started dating the second guy and stupidly on my part we had a sexual relationship right away.
After the first guy and I broke up I went to the doctor to take a pregnancy test and got checked out for any STD's this was about a few days before the second guy and I started dating, I just wanted to make sure i was clean and safe and not pregnant and the tests came back negative..so into the first week of june is when i had sex with the second guy and I had an accident with my birth control which i had just got on for the very first time so i was new to it. I decided to wait untill july to see if i had my period and i did.
but now at the end of August i find out im pregnant I even had a normal period this month but my mom and I noticed that im getting bigger in my stomache and plus i had alot of the signs like swollen breasts and mood swings.
Im just really worried whos baby it could be.
If its the first guy's baby that would not be good, one because he's moved to cali and secondly, he treated me badly and thats why I ended it with him and I would never want my child to have a father like that.
If it was his do I have to tell him even if i decided to keep the baby?
and if I decided to give my baby up would I have to tell him?
I really dont want him apart of this kids life and Im not sure if i have that right and yes were both over 18.
As for guy number two, I really hope that its his kid, he's a sweet guy and I know he would be there for me and support me whether i kept the baby or gave it up, even though me and him are not together we are still really close friends and our families are very close and all in all the baby would have a very loving family..
I have an appt. for an ultra sound in a few days and im very anxious to see how far along I am..
i know i shouldnt have been with two guys so close together as well and I am not happy with myself for doing so, but life is life and im trying to figure out whats best for my child, not for me.
but anyways I have not told either guy yet because I dont want to get their hopes up, or down I just seriously hope its not the first guys child.. and im really nervous..
whos do you think it is?
if it was the second guys the most id be is 12 weeks about and im already showing a slight bump, i am also a very tiny petite girl to.
and please dont judge me im not hoping its the second guys baby because i want to be with him or anything, its just that he would be a great father, were already friends, our families our close and the baby would have SUCH a better life.