mangelsr69
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Ok here is the story. About 2 years ago my long term gf and our 2 kids moved into her mother's house after her grandmother passed away to help out with bills. Her mother lost her job while her grandmother was sick. Her aunt and cousin also live in the house. The problem is that her aunt (in her 50s) and her cousin (21) are not getting jobs to help out with the bills. I have told my gf and her mother to kick them out or they will mooch off of us for the rest of their lives. They will not kick them out stating that "they are family" and"it's just not that easy".
The 21 year old has never had a job in his life and no means to go to school. The aunt has never had a good job history at all being fired from a couple jobs in the past for stealing. What I need to know is how can I convince my gf and her mother to kick the free loaders out of the house. What's the best way to do this? Maybe they will listen to opinions outside of the family. I know that we are not helping them b allowing them to mooch off of us.
The 21 year old has never had a job in his life and no means to go to school. The aunt has never had a good job history at all being fired from a couple jobs in the past for stealing. What I need to know is how can I convince my gf and her mother to kick the free loaders out of the house. What's the best way to do this? Maybe they will listen to opinions outside of the family. I know that we are not helping them b allowing them to mooch off of us.