dating a guy who is VERY into sports, should I even bother?

The Geej

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I don't care for sports, I'd rather do the dishes lol. I started hanging out with this guy that I've actually known for over a decade, we have quite the history, we've always had chemistry, long-story short.. we had a childhod romance that never quite went away, some intermittent flings over the years, never slept together but we always had a connection, could always talk for hours, and have had many very passionate makeout sessions, but we never decided to give us a real chance til now, we both agreed it was 'time'.

Problem is, he is so into sports that he watches the game more than he talks to me. Normally I'm pretty cool about this, like, I don't mind if a guy wants to watch the game with the guys on Sunday or whatever, but like, it's like every other night. To make matters worse, he hurt his back and has been taking muscle relaxers so he's been sleeping A LOT. We had an amazing first weekend together after deciding to see where things will go if we actually give us a genuine shot, and the stupid hockey game and his back hurting is really getting in the way of spending any time together. I went over one day to bring him dinner and rub his back and give him some lovin to cheer him up about his back, he thought that was amazing and was so appreciative and happy, but then doesn't really call for a few days because he's either working, sleeping, or watching the game. I find this very frustrating, I'm trying to be understanding, but, it's like, everytime he gives me his time we are really hitting it off, then it's just..nothing..for days. If it weren't for our history, I'd totally already be gone and not even care about this guy I'd lose interest so fast, but, ahhhhh I don't know what to do.
 
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