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My wife and I just had a kid. Her mom wants to intervene desperately. Several things concern me:
She doesn't speak English. If home alone with child how can she call 911 when they cannot understand her.
In her home country, she grew up in a village. She has no more than a 4th grade education and is illiterate in her own language. Anyway, she killed her first child by overfeeding it. She stuffed bread down a baby's mouth! She is so stupid and it is a sad, unnecessary loss of life. Neighbors and her grandparents mostly raised my wife because she didn't know how, especially after killing one child.
She's clumsy. I mean super clumsy. She dropped my wife down a flight of stairs when she was 3. Luckily she is not brain damaged but the mom does stuff like this all the time. She can't even use a fork and knife - she eats with her hands! It's unbelievable! And she is not developmentally challenged (I guess it depends on one's definition!).
She's lazy and crazy superstitious as well....
She works a job for 4 hours a day at a bakery and complains relentlessly. She alls my wife every half hour and talks about the most non-relevant, unimportant stuff ever. She had my wife's secretary pull her out of a meeting to tell her that she had a dream that my wife was mean to her and that she needs to apologize - WTF!?!? She tries to impose her old-school superstitions on our baby for perceivable "luck" reasons. They are things that endanger the baby.
I got laid off two weeks ago and we're thinking about jusy having me stay home with the baby permanently. This is hard to do financially and would love a grandma's help but this is just not going to work. My wife thinks she be fine - I can't stand how my wife always feels guilty and gives in to her mom. The lady turns my wife into a 5 yr old every time through guilt and manipulation.
It's sad, but I'm honestly wishing this lady's mortality takes its course soon. She is such a drag on our lives and my wife's mental state.
She doesn't speak English. If home alone with child how can she call 911 when they cannot understand her.
In her home country, she grew up in a village. She has no more than a 4th grade education and is illiterate in her own language. Anyway, she killed her first child by overfeeding it. She stuffed bread down a baby's mouth! She is so stupid and it is a sad, unnecessary loss of life. Neighbors and her grandparents mostly raised my wife because she didn't know how, especially after killing one child.
She's clumsy. I mean super clumsy. She dropped my wife down a flight of stairs when she was 3. Luckily she is not brain damaged but the mom does stuff like this all the time. She can't even use a fork and knife - she eats with her hands! It's unbelievable! And she is not developmentally challenged (I guess it depends on one's definition!).
She's lazy and crazy superstitious as well....
She works a job for 4 hours a day at a bakery and complains relentlessly. She alls my wife every half hour and talks about the most non-relevant, unimportant stuff ever. She had my wife's secretary pull her out of a meeting to tell her that she had a dream that my wife was mean to her and that she needs to apologize - WTF!?!? She tries to impose her old-school superstitions on our baby for perceivable "luck" reasons. They are things that endanger the baby.
I got laid off two weeks ago and we're thinking about jusy having me stay home with the baby permanently. This is hard to do financially and would love a grandma's help but this is just not going to work. My wife thinks she be fine - I can't stand how my wife always feels guilty and gives in to her mom. The lady turns my wife into a 5 yr old every time through guilt and manipulation.
It's sad, but I'm honestly wishing this lady's mortality takes its course soon. She is such a drag on our lives and my wife's mental state.