Cowardism/No Luck

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Mrfrancissco

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I really haven't had many girlfriends, most people say I don't look that bad, not great but not bad. I usually afraid to ask girls out, always afraid of stupid rejection while I get rejected at other things and laugh. Not only that but I really don't find anyone at my school that I really like, or for that matter anyone around me which makes it even harder. I'm kinda stuck in this place and it's starting to eat at me. I don't care for responses I just wanted to get this off my chest, that's what this sites for anway.
 
If you really don't like any of the girls at your school, why not pratice with them? If you dont't like them, you shouldn't care their rejection. Ask them out and see what happens. The best thing that can happen is that you get laid, the worse, you get rejected by a dumb bitch you didn't even like in the first place :thumbsup:
 
That's not a bad idea but it still hard to tell my mind that. It's cowardism as the thread title suggests. I really have no other fears, I could seriously laugh at death with ease but something so simple as this makes me feel weak and makes the problem even worse.
 
Stop thinking about it so much. There is no reason to cower from rejection. Its part of life, no one gets them all. Just have some confidence and go for it. Worrying/hesitation isn
 
Oh, I plan on doing it but It's still going to be hard. Just need to find a girl that isn't a bitch and isn't ugly and I'll try to ask. I know the first time will make it easier afterwards, but the first is the hardest afterall.
 
See, you are already thinking too much about it. You want to find a girl that isn't a bitch and isn't ugly. First off I agree with the bitch part, but we must remember most girls are all bitches. Second, you need to practice with the ugly ones! Those are the easiest ones. They will probably never say no. This will boost your confidence and you can move your way up. You are suppose to practice with the ugly ones you don't like. If you try to find one you like a little bit or think she is pretty, you will get too nervous and fuck everything up.
 
I'm (sorta) with Chilianfuckface on this one. If you've never asked anyone out, going to the high-end of your expectations is a sure way to get yourself tripped up. If you're so worried about rejection, go find some girl walking around by herself at a mall or something. That way, even if she turns out to be a real bitch, you'll never have to see her again. :thumbsup:
 
I like the mall idea, I'll see if me and my friends can head over to the big mall near by (mall's like the third biggest in the nation I believe).

Thanks for the thought Tiger but I've tried e-dating when it first really took off and I ended up forgeting about the girl and she got really pissed at me. I'd rather not do that agian, course she turned out to really be a bitch and had like 20 of her friends im me and yell at me, had to change AIM name.
 
*cries* *winces* That had to have sucked. I was just trying to make you feel better, though. E-dating would be kind of rough I would think.
 
Dude, rejections sucks and I understand the feer of asking a chick out.

Go for the ugly ones at your school. There's benefits to that. First off, if they don't get asked a lot they're more likely to say yes. Second off, at my last reunion I noticed all the chicks that were hot are now not and all the ugo's are now hotties. And since I was at least nice to the ugly chicks they were more than willing to give me the time of day. (think of the future man)

But if you don't care about the chicks, that makes it easier. Because if you care you get all excited and goofy. If you couldn't care less you're more apt to be yourself which means that you'll get more yeses that way.
 
Rejection is part of life.
(I'm not saying everyone is always being rejected but hey, it will happen eventually)

I'm not only saying this for the girl's problems but it's something you have to always considere in life, it happens, you don't win all the time.

So, retorical talking here, what can you loose?
 
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