country kitchen?color of dining room table and cabinet frames?

[Kallie]

I have a nice sized kitchen.have light maple like paneling and chair rail. The upper walls are painted ocher at present and I want to change il...I want to paint the upper walls Kilim beige its a clean crisp beige from Sherwin williams and I have it in my family room opposite the kitchen. My husband put the same paneling into the inserts of the cabinets and they are painted ocher as well. have light wood floors. I want to paint the upper walls kilim beige,hang black gingham valances with faux wood blinds on the two windows.frig,stove d/w is white.I want to purchase a better homes and garden farmhouse table set.My dilemma.I wonder if I should go with the white table with the oak top or the black table with the oak top.the top of the table is slightly darker than the paneling and the floor which are the same wood tone.I thought the table would pop but would it be out of place.next question: should I paint the cabinet door frames outside the panel inserts with kilim beige or another color I have olive curtains in the family room and I wonder if I pull that into the kitchen how would that look.Thanks in advance.