Ok i know this is going to be kinda long but please just bear with me on this, I could really use some advice on this..
Im a freshman in college and over the summer at orientation I met this girl who was going to the same college as me. We talked every day, even though she lived over an hour away from me. We got really close, and I had hoped that maybe we would date once school started because she acted into me too, but that didnt happen.. she got a boyfriend 3 weeks before school started which kinda killed my plans of asking her out. But whatever, I was hurt, but I still wanted to stay good friends. We get to college and she barely talked to me. I would text her to see if she wanted to hang out, or maybe grab lunch or anything, but no response... ok after a while I just gave up, because I couldn't handle the feeling of rejection every time I asked to hang out(just as friends)... Ok its december now, and we haven't talked in a while, but I see her status on aim as something along the lines as "my heart hurts".. she signs off before I get a chance to IM her and ask her about it.. so I decided to send her a quick facebook message asking if she is ok, and i also threw in how I miss her.. i get a response about how she misses me too and all this crap about how she is sorry that she had been so standoffish... and then i write back to her basically explaining everything(basically a longer form of what I told you. like i told her how i used to like her and stuff too) and I apologized too. ok whatever, I may have went alittle overboard on the whole telling her how i felt, but I had to get that off my chest... well no response from her.. a week later i find out that she had blocked me on aim. I proceeded to remove her from facebook because I was so angry and upset.. And now Im here, upset about how things turned out.. missing her so much, because when we were close we were pretty much best friends. I know i'm not perfect but I feel like there I didnt really do anything wrong. Idk maybe im just dumb...
just can someone please help me out here? like what is her deal.. what made her hate me so much? she went from telling me about how she dreamed of me to blocking me and basically forcing me out of her life...
Im a freshman in college and over the summer at orientation I met this girl who was going to the same college as me. We talked every day, even though she lived over an hour away from me. We got really close, and I had hoped that maybe we would date once school started because she acted into me too, but that didnt happen.. she got a boyfriend 3 weeks before school started which kinda killed my plans of asking her out. But whatever, I was hurt, but I still wanted to stay good friends. We get to college and she barely talked to me. I would text her to see if she wanted to hang out, or maybe grab lunch or anything, but no response... ok after a while I just gave up, because I couldn't handle the feeling of rejection every time I asked to hang out(just as friends)... Ok its december now, and we haven't talked in a while, but I see her status on aim as something along the lines as "my heart hurts".. she signs off before I get a chance to IM her and ask her about it.. so I decided to send her a quick facebook message asking if she is ok, and i also threw in how I miss her.. i get a response about how she misses me too and all this crap about how she is sorry that she had been so standoffish... and then i write back to her basically explaining everything(basically a longer form of what I told you. like i told her how i used to like her and stuff too) and I apologized too. ok whatever, I may have went alittle overboard on the whole telling her how i felt, but I had to get that off my chest... well no response from her.. a week later i find out that she had blocked me on aim. I proceeded to remove her from facebook because I was so angry and upset.. And now Im here, upset about how things turned out.. missing her so much, because when we were close we were pretty much best friends. I know i'm not perfect but I feel like there I didnt really do anything wrong. Idk maybe im just dumb...
just can someone please help me out here? like what is her deal.. what made her hate me so much? she went from telling me about how she dreamed of me to blocking me and basically forcing me out of her life...