i am what i am
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Hello, I'm 13 turning 14 soon. im confused about whether or not im lesbian, bisexual, bi-curious or heterosexual. ive always kinda secretly wanted to be a guy. i used to dress like one and act like it all the time. i still do act like one but i dress more like a girl now, but still no skirts and rarely dresses. i would always hangout with the boys and we would always talk about how pretty girls were (this was when i was 5-9) and i still think girls are VERY attractive. i've had boyfriends but am currently single, but whenever i would kiss my boyfriends i would always be grossed out. and thinking of marrying one grosses me out too. ive never dated a girl or kissed one so i don't know how that would make me feel but whenever i see a really hot girl i get this feeling inside that's all tingly. and i sometimes i even fantasize about girls! could this be a phase or do you think im lesbian maybe bisexual?