Sienna's mommy
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...I've never met her? I'm emailing my exes mom to tell her I'm pregnant. I haven't talked to her son since mid-september, and I'm now 12 weeks pregnant. He won't talk to me. He hung up on me when I called him from the hospital when I got a bad UTI. I ran into him at a gas station, and he ran as fast as he could to his car when he saw me pull in. You get the picture. So, I'm at a crossroads, I'm 27 years old, with a 2 year old daughter by another guy. I've been offered a VERY good job in New Orleans, (I currently live in California) My family has all but disowned me. I have no contact with my ex whom I'm pregnant by. I have nothing to lose by moving to N.O.. My dilemma is, I think his Mom has a right to know. I know she doesn't know I'm pregnant. I would give up having more money for my unborn child to have the paternal side of it's family in it's life. So I'm going to email his Mom, but nothing seems to be coming out right, so I need some help. Here are the main points I wanna make...
- I am pregnant by her son, and although he does not like me at all anymore, I don't hate her son, and I don't want to bad mouth him.
- He's been told many lies about me by someone I was good friends with, and I would be more then willing to talk about these things if she wants.
- I'm not after money. I have a good job and am well off finacially.
- I'm not trying to get her son back relationship wise. I have a new boyfriend who I've known for over 10 years before this, who knows the situation.
- If she decides she wants nothing to do with this child, then I will accept that, and quietly move away to New Orleans, and not bother her again,
- If her son wants a paternity test (he's never denied to me that he's the father) I would be more then glad to pay for half of it. And he can have one in 6 weeks because I'm having an amnio done.
Now, a few questions. Her son will talk bad about me to her. I wasn't perfect, mostly I didn't take the break up with much dignity, I kept calling him trying to work it out, etc, and this was BEFORE I found out I was pregnant. Should I get into the things he will say about me, and explain it myself, or should I stay away from talking about our relationship? How should I explain to her, that if she dislikes me from things her son says, there is no need to email me back being mean. I really don't want to hear it, and as much as I am over her son, it would kinda hurt my feelings alittle. Any help with this would be GREAT!!!!
- I am pregnant by her son, and although he does not like me at all anymore, I don't hate her son, and I don't want to bad mouth him.
- He's been told many lies about me by someone I was good friends with, and I would be more then willing to talk about these things if she wants.
- I'm not after money. I have a good job and am well off finacially.
- I'm not trying to get her son back relationship wise. I have a new boyfriend who I've known for over 10 years before this, who knows the situation.
- If she decides she wants nothing to do with this child, then I will accept that, and quietly move away to New Orleans, and not bother her again,
- If her son wants a paternity test (he's never denied to me that he's the father) I would be more then glad to pay for half of it. And he can have one in 6 weeks because I'm having an amnio done.
Now, a few questions. Her son will talk bad about me to her. I wasn't perfect, mostly I didn't take the break up with much dignity, I kept calling him trying to work it out, etc, and this was BEFORE I found out I was pregnant. Should I get into the things he will say about me, and explain it myself, or should I stay away from talking about our relationship? How should I explain to her, that if she dislikes me from things her son says, there is no need to email me back being mean. I really don't want to hear it, and as much as I am over her son, it would kinda hurt my feelings alittle. Any help with this would be GREAT!!!!