Mary-Jane P
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There was a guy that I worked with before, he had a crush on me while still having a girlfriend. But we were just friends. He would tell me problems about his gf, like he knows theyre bad with each other but have been together for lik 7-8 years so he feels a little stuck or guilty if he broke up with her. Before he left to new york for school he told me he I was his type and that he wished things were different and wished there was more time . I told him I think hes cool smart and funny,but i dont know how to respond to that because he has a girlfriend. He left to new york, we were still friends, texted each other a little, but i dont know i felt a little weird about it because it seems like we were "talking". So i texted him less and less. after a month of not talking he gives me a text saying "thinking of you". I really didnt know how to respond so i didnt say anything.
He came back a few months later for thanksgiving break. I had lunch with him. We were both nervous to see each other but things went alright, very casual. I knew he still liked me, and then he tells me that he had just broken up with his gf a couple of days prior. He's gonna come back for xmas break and we're supposed to hang out. But I know he and his girlfriend are always on and off but he doesnt like her as much as she likes him? So i really dont know about this guy. For now, I just want to be friends until something changes and we are supposed to just be friends but it seems like he wants to be more than friends. And everytime I go hang out with him, it feels like a date.
Should i hang out with him during xmas break? am i leading him on and making him think that I want to be with him if i hang out with him? I dont mind a friendship with him and I dont mind getting to know him more or "dating" him to see where things go. But hes not making things clear with me.
P.S. I dont even know if he and his girlfriend are even still broken up, they both still have pictures of each other on fb. Am I just like a back up for him or something? keeping me there on the fishing line and only gonna reel me up when hes done with his main fish?
He came back a few months later for thanksgiving break. I had lunch with him. We were both nervous to see each other but things went alright, very casual. I knew he still liked me, and then he tells me that he had just broken up with his gf a couple of days prior. He's gonna come back for xmas break and we're supposed to hang out. But I know he and his girlfriend are always on and off but he doesnt like her as much as she likes him? So i really dont know about this guy. For now, I just want to be friends until something changes and we are supposed to just be friends but it seems like he wants to be more than friends. And everytime I go hang out with him, it feels like a date.
Should i hang out with him during xmas break? am i leading him on and making him think that I want to be with him if i hang out with him? I dont mind a friendship with him and I dont mind getting to know him more or "dating" him to see where things go. But hes not making things clear with me.
P.S. I dont even know if he and his girlfriend are even still broken up, they both still have pictures of each other on fb. Am I just like a back up for him or something? keeping me there on the fishing line and only gonna reel me up when hes done with his main fish?