Nicholas S
New member
we're both 22. i love my girlfriend to death but our difference in sex drives is starting to cause a lot of conflict in our relationship. she thinks i want sex too much. she said she really only wants to have sex once a week. i'd like to have sex more like 3-4 times a week. when we first started dating a year ago, it was different but things have definitely cooled down. We're both still living at home for now so it is hard to find time to have sex so of course i like to take advantage of the opportunities we are given, especialy because a given opportunity might be the only time all week. she thinks that just because I think that way, that I expect it. She doesn't like that and gets turned off. I mean, I don't EXPECT anything, but yes i like to think we would have sex on our only opporuntity of the week. Even if its two opportunities, 2 times a week isn't that much so yes I still think we would take advantage of that time. she told me she doesn't want me to ask or expect anything. if she's not completely in the mood and I try to turn her on, she gets mad. She is now going so far as to limit our sexual frequency to 1-2 times a week anyway and I hate that she wants that much control. what should I do? we are really serious. i would love to just take my time and romance her and do when we have the chance, but its not like have really have time for that in our present situation.