Chat room love/stalker problems?

Kate

New member
So I've been using a chat room for a while, and this one operator gave me an op position because im there every night. So we private message a lot, he seems pretty cool, he's 20 and im 18. So we started out private messaging, then moved to e-mail and we have pics of each other, and now he wants to text. I don't really want him to text and call me because once I give him my number he wont leave me alone about meeting in real life, plus he could find out way more information about me.

I've just been going along with it. But I don't know what to tell him. I deleted my e-mail and made a new one without him knowing and he says, "What happened to your e-mail?" and I just say my account got deleted, so I took care of that one. But he's always saying, "I love you so much. Your amazing, I love you," and I just keep saying, "Yeah, yeah I love you too." just to keep him happy. But I really want to kind of get him away from me but I don't know how. It's not like I can just leave the chat because im an operator on it and im there every night for a chat that gets published on tv, so he'll always come back private messaging me whe nthe show is on.

So my questions are:
1.) How can I get him away from me without sounding like a b*tch and leading him on the wrong way when I really don't care for him?

2.) Since he gave me the operator position, do you think he'll be mad that im not talking to him and he'll de-op me?

3.) What can I do to tell him I don't really want him to text and call me?
 
here are several things that you did wrong, who owns the chat site?
Next time you do something like this make a an email ID that you would use for the chat room admin only. See this way you do not have to re-email your friends with your new email addy because of an errant amorous admin/owner.
Do not send pictures of yourself or find the uglest picture of somebody else to send.
Especially do not send your phone number or address.
MOST OF ALL DO NOT ENCOURAGE HIM, BE A B*TCH ABOUT IT!
If you lose the position.chalk it up to experience and life.
 
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