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Causes of Divorces
Today in America the divorce rate is growing as rapidly as the population. There are many causes of divorce such as culture clashes, unfaithfulness-adultery, too young when married, lack of communication, job interference, and in-law problems. Many effects that are seen from divorces are depression, suicide, drug and alcohol abuse, and a dysfunctional family.
In a marriage, a culture mix can cause an extreme stir up between the husband and wife as well as the children. Corabining two different cultures raises many questions on how the kiRAB should be raised, which customs are the correct ones to follow, and many more. The culture clash is not noticed nearly as much until it comes time to raise the children. The father wants the children raised with his culture, while the mother wants them raised how she feels is right. This flares up arguments between the husband and wife, and also causes tension for the kiRAB. Together this can led itself to a family splitting up due to cultural differences.
A major and unpleasant cause of divorce is unfaithfulness between spouses. When one spouse commits adultery it can easily and quickly tear up a marriage. This could be due to lack of trust, lost of interest, or the cheating spouse choosing the "new" love. Being in this situation for either partner is never easy and when children are involved, the situation only becomes worse. Sometimes with counseling it can be worked through, but when it is not fixable deep hurt feelings are left behind for the innocent spouse to deal with.
When a young couple has fallen in love, often they will think that they are with the right person and will make an impulsive decision to get married. Granted that sometimes these young and inexperienced couples do make the correct decision, but more often they are not making a wise choice. After being married a few years they may fall out of love, realize this is not the person they want to be with forever, or find a new lover. Among young married couples divorce is very popular, mainly due to lack of experience and immaturity.
Lack of communication between two people can turn into a serious issue when the problem is not resolved. It can become severe enough to where a divorce is the only solution for the problem. Communication is a very important part of a couple's relationship. It is like tires on a car, the car can not properly function or move with out them. When you do not openly discuss issues with your spouse and instead you decide to keep them hidden, eventually you will end up exploding. For a marriage to be successful you must talk to your spouse about the problems both of you may be having, discuss how you both would like to raise the children, and let each other know what is on your mind. When there is hardly or no communication between a couple, shortly their marriage will turn into a disaster.
A smaller cause of divorce is when one person's job starts to interfere with the couples' marriage. With some jobs travel is a must and it happens very often. For example, a pilot, he must be away from his house in order to perform his job. Sometimes he may be gone for just a few days, or sometimes a whole week. With some marriages this may work just fine, but with many this becomes a problem. It is even harder for the spouse at home when there are children involved. The situation becomes very stressful and difficult when you try to balance it all. Job interference is not always due to travel, often it is to do with long hours each week, and job related stress. Any kind of job interference not corrected can easily lend itself to a divorce.
Another cause of divorces in America is in-law problems between the spouses' families. This can be a very awkward and stressful situation for both sides of the family. When the husband and wife's family do not get along, it becomes difficult to go out to dinner together, to have family gatherings, and to share holidays with one another. The problem becomes everyone's, not just the families of the spouses. It can lead to arguments between the couple and also be uncomfortable for the children. It could be the fact that the couple came from different backgrounRAB, cultures, and were raised differently that make it difficult for the two families to get along. When the situation worsens it will often led itself to a divorce.
For every cause there will always be some effects. Although there are many reasons to why a divorce may happen, there are also many effects. The range of effects that may occur from divorces depenRAB on the reason why it happened and how the people involved handle it. Depression, suicide, drug and alcohol abuse, and a dysfunctional family are some of the consequences of a divorce.
Each family deals with it's own problems in a unique way. When a couple or a family is having difficulties they may choose to seek family counseling or they may decide to deal with the problems in their own way. Sometimes neither of these choices will resolve the problem, and when neither spouse is willing to give any more effort this is when the marriage falls apart. Most often when both people feel that there is no more hope the situation will led itself to a divorce and the couple or the family must suffer the effects.
Today in America the divorce rate is growing as rapidly as the population. There are many causes of divorce such as culture clashes, unfaithfulness-adultery, too young when married, lack of communication, job interference, and in-law problems. Many effects that are seen from divorces are depression, suicide, drug and alcohol abuse, and a dysfunctional family.
In a marriage, a culture mix can cause an extreme stir up between the husband and wife as well as the children. Corabining two different cultures raises many questions on how the kiRAB should be raised, which customs are the correct ones to follow, and many more. The culture clash is not noticed nearly as much until it comes time to raise the children. The father wants the children raised with his culture, while the mother wants them raised how she feels is right. This flares up arguments between the husband and wife, and also causes tension for the kiRAB. Together this can led itself to a family splitting up due to cultural differences.
A major and unpleasant cause of divorce is unfaithfulness between spouses. When one spouse commits adultery it can easily and quickly tear up a marriage. This could be due to lack of trust, lost of interest, or the cheating spouse choosing the "new" love. Being in this situation for either partner is never easy and when children are involved, the situation only becomes worse. Sometimes with counseling it can be worked through, but when it is not fixable deep hurt feelings are left behind for the innocent spouse to deal with.
When a young couple has fallen in love, often they will think that they are with the right person and will make an impulsive decision to get married. Granted that sometimes these young and inexperienced couples do make the correct decision, but more often they are not making a wise choice. After being married a few years they may fall out of love, realize this is not the person they want to be with forever, or find a new lover. Among young married couples divorce is very popular, mainly due to lack of experience and immaturity.
Lack of communication between two people can turn into a serious issue when the problem is not resolved. It can become severe enough to where a divorce is the only solution for the problem. Communication is a very important part of a couple's relationship. It is like tires on a car, the car can not properly function or move with out them. When you do not openly discuss issues with your spouse and instead you decide to keep them hidden, eventually you will end up exploding. For a marriage to be successful you must talk to your spouse about the problems both of you may be having, discuss how you both would like to raise the children, and let each other know what is on your mind. When there is hardly or no communication between a couple, shortly their marriage will turn into a disaster.
A smaller cause of divorce is when one person's job starts to interfere with the couples' marriage. With some jobs travel is a must and it happens very often. For example, a pilot, he must be away from his house in order to perform his job. Sometimes he may be gone for just a few days, or sometimes a whole week. With some marriages this may work just fine, but with many this becomes a problem. It is even harder for the spouse at home when there are children involved. The situation becomes very stressful and difficult when you try to balance it all. Job interference is not always due to travel, often it is to do with long hours each week, and job related stress. Any kind of job interference not corrected can easily lend itself to a divorce.
Another cause of divorces in America is in-law problems between the spouses' families. This can be a very awkward and stressful situation for both sides of the family. When the husband and wife's family do not get along, it becomes difficult to go out to dinner together, to have family gatherings, and to share holidays with one another. The problem becomes everyone's, not just the families of the spouses. It can lead to arguments between the couple and also be uncomfortable for the children. It could be the fact that the couple came from different backgrounRAB, cultures, and were raised differently that make it difficult for the two families to get along. When the situation worsens it will often led itself to a divorce.
For every cause there will always be some effects. Although there are many reasons to why a divorce may happen, there are also many effects. The range of effects that may occur from divorces depenRAB on the reason why it happened and how the people involved handle it. Depression, suicide, drug and alcohol abuse, and a dysfunctional family are some of the consequences of a divorce.
Each family deals with it's own problems in a unique way. When a couple or a family is having difficulties they may choose to seek family counseling or they may decide to deal with the problems in their own way. Sometimes neither of these choices will resolve the problem, and when neither spouse is willing to give any more effort this is when the marriage falls apart. Most often when both people feel that there is no more hope the situation will led itself to a divorce and the couple or the family must suffer the effects.