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Sandra
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I've been married for 12 years - am 41 years old. My husband is a good, loving man and devoted to our family. We have school-age boys. I don't think I am in love with him. He has never really turned me on. He is sweet, but insecure, especially in bed. I had a brief affair which reminded me of how great sex can be and now I'm even more frustrated. We are seeing a counselor but I am worried that there is nothing we can do and that we are plainly incompatible. I don't want to rearrange our family and I don't want to stay in this marriage either. There are many great things about our marriage, but sex isn't one of them. What can be done?