Can you have a long term relationship with someone you had sex with the

[Stevie Stacks]

first night you met them? I'm a second semester freshman in college. The whole first semester I did a lot of partying. It was over that period of time that I was with a lot of girls. I'm at the point where I want to stop hoping from bed to bed. I met this phenomenal girl the other night and we spent the whole night talking at the bar. When we went back to my room we had sex. Usually when this happens I never hear from the girl again or things are so weird that I terminate all means of communication. This was not the case. She texted me to say hello and I texted her back. I think I like this girl and she obviously doesn't hate me (yet). Is it possible to build a long term relationship around an other wise one night stand? Male and female opinions please. Success, failure and opinions are all welcome.

 

[One Love]

No, it's fine. It's called chemistry. You hit it off, slept together (which is totally normal to do in college, by the way), and you realized you STILL have chemistry.. and that it wasn't just a one night stand or something. My college boyfriend (we went out for 2 1/2 years) began as a hook up.

 

[for3v3rjuliet]

I'm in the same boat as you, except I don't have a guy who was a one night stand that stuck around. I would say....it's going to be very very very hard. If I were you, I'd take things slow from now on, get to know her. It's kinda like going backwards. And try to feel what motives she has. Does she want to be friends? potential girlfriend? or just another one-night-stand? I say feel because anyone can say anything but not speaks louder than action and your intuition. Good luck.