I need help. I have a fiance. We have a child together but are living with our parents. She is trying to get food stamps. The ppl called me and asked what do I do for my daughter. Im getting nervous because I don't wanna get put on child support by the government. I do so much for my daughter and my fiance doesn't want me on it. Is it possible for the government to put somebody on child support without the woman wanting to?