Can you get genital herpes from having oral sex with somebody who has a...

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...coldsore even if it hasn't fully appea? Because I was having sex with my boyfriend about a week and a half ago and he had a cold sore but it wasn't completely out yet and I didn't realize it and he performed oral sex on me. And now a couple days ago I felt my vagina becoming ichy and I looked to see eat was going on and I saw a cut on my vagina appeared near the opening this has never happened to me before so obviously I became frantic and this may have appeared maybe a week ago and it's still there and the ich is still there at first I just thought maybe it's just a cut from having intercourse but then I have notice a couple bumps they aren't all together they are in random spots and they are small but the are all next the the opening of my vagina and they ich. I'm really scared I may have genital herpes now because of it. If u have any info for me on this matter and what you think it could be please let me know because I'm really freaking out. I'm suppoused to be joining the army soon and I can't join if I have and stds. And another question are genital herpes curable?