Can you forgive your fiancee for cheating even if it was phone-sex chat?

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Cathy

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We are engaged and getting married next year in may. He tells me what he did was plain stupid and he was going thru a lot during that time ( his father passed away in june). Do you think thats a good enough excuse to do what he did? I'm sooo in love with him and i want us to get passed this but at the same time i'm very doubtful...HELP!!!!
 
If it was with a girl he knows... Then I'd say leave him; he'll do it again.

If it was with one of these "pay per minute" services... I'd forgive him.
 
I couldn't honey - I'd be worried about it every time he got on the phone, but with counselling you could be ok? Trust is 0% or 100% in my view...! Best of luck xx
 
I wouldn't take it back until he really proved to me that he was sorry and won't let it happen again. Plus if he did it behind your back that could mean that you are not enough for him and your not satisfying his needs. Bring that to his attention and dont marry him till you fully have that trust back.
 
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