If you are the only child in your family are you considered the "oldest", my position is that if you are the only child you are not the "oldest" because their is nobody to be older than. Oldest being the higher form of older. And does older mean older than somebody else, and oldest being older than everybody. Their is no older therefore no oldest.
P.S. part of it is the understanding that this happened in the past and that my parents had two more children. However we are debating at the time period before the second child was conceived
P.S. part of it is the understanding that this happened in the past and that my parents had two more children. However we are debating at the time period before the second child was conceived