Can sex alone really do this?

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Can sex alone really do this?
Is it possible for a guy to be so taken with you after a one-time thing, even years later? This guy and I were briefly together, and we recently ran into eachother for the first time since (7 years later!). Now we've been talking on and off via text, email, phone (he lives states away), and he is acting as if he's in love with me.

Normally I would think he just wants sex, and maybe that is just it, but the REAL catcher here is he lives across country and wants to fly me down to see him, fly to see me, he bought tickets already for us to go to the Bonaroo (a huge music festival and tickets are like $250-$300 a piece)- This all among other things, I mean he is really investing a lot in me already. He's about 12 years older than me too, although I don't know if that's relevant or not.

What are his intentions here? I asked him that myself and he just said again "I can't stop thinking about what happened between us, I dream about it all the time. You are perfect, amazing, gorgeous..." etc. etc.

No cruel or rude answers please you guys, I'd just like some reasonable advice and opinions- thanks in advance :)
 
i don't know how old you were when you first dated or why you split up, but he genuinely may have a crush on you - some people are more memorable than others and some leave more of a lasting impression. i just wonder what relationships he's been in for the last 7 yrs , i mean, he must be late 30's or more

meet up with him and take it from there, only you will know if there's any sexual chemistry
 
i would imagine that if you guys were friends previous to the sex and friends after that it would be possible that he actually loves you! or if it was a f0ck and g0 thing it was probably the best sex he ever had!!!!
there is my thoughts on this
 
Well the best I can say is that would probably just scare me! =\.. I would probably seriously severe communication.. Some guys are just like that; it only takes one time or one little sign of affection and they turn into pure clingy.. Maybe I've just seen too many Lifetime movies but yeah I wouldn't want to be involved with this guy at all.
 
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