...a life threatening condition? I have been married to my husband for 2 years now. In late November I became ill. We quit having sex and I thought it was because he thought he would hurt me in some way. He started being kinda distant towards me but I thought as soon as my problem was solved everything would be back to normal. I had an MRI on Dec.29,2010 and was waiting for the results. On New Years Day he out of the blue said ( I don't wanna be married anymore so as soon as you get your results and take care of your problem you have got to go back to Texas ASAP). I have been devastated over all of this and today I found out that I have a brain tumor and will need surgery and possibly long term care. I have no family or friends that live within 800 miles of where we are. On top of all of this he has been seeing a single female coworker that is also in the Navy. They have went on a few skii trips together right under my nose and I never realized it. He is also trying to keep everything hush hush on his job for some reason. I guess he wants to put it off on me to make it look like I am not happy and wanted to go back to Texas. He also offered to give me the couch tv and bed or $2500 dollars but nothing out of his Navy bank account. He says that money is his even though he got a raise for getting married and the income tax money goes in their. What is also bad is he would not even put my name on the account so I could get money out. He said my bad credit would ruin his credit if my name was on the account. What should I do??? I cannot afford a lawyer to fight him.
I am not after his money and YES I love him. I cannot leave now because I have to have surgery to try and remove this tumor or I will die.
I am not after his money and YES I love him. I cannot leave now because I have to have surgery to try and remove this tumor or I will die.