Can Military Love Work..Adding To The Fact We Met Online?

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I met this guy online he's in the military, Army to be exact.
We clicked as soon as we started talking. We decided to know each other more, and see what happens when he comes back from Iraq (in 3 months)..I'm still going to date him..But i want viewpoints first...
If you went through this, That's a plus!
Well please give advice on how to treat him, and what kidn of things to talk about?..Thanks!!
 
My wife and I met face-to-face, but after five months I went away (Navy) and we spent 15 of the next 16 months apart. Most of that was overseas. This was also long before on-line dating, email, etc.

She wrote me every day though and I appreciated everything she sent me even if she was just telling me what was for lunch. Any contact with the outside world is good. Trust me, compared to what he's going through, your normal and maybe boring life is interesting and different.

BTW, we just celebrated our 18th wedding anniversary.
 
If you meet when he comes back from Iraq, you need to start all over again - as if you are meeting him for the first time (which you are really). Then just get to know him normally. Stop leaping ahead - what`s the rush?
Meet him first, then take your time in getting to know each other.
 
Well when he gets back from the military, you will be a fresh flower for him. Talk about life in general. I would treat him like anyone else you are interested in.
 
I was a Marine who had a mail romance (before the days of online dating)..we had just met right before i went to boot camp then cemented it via the mail for the next 3 months...I was crazy for her in boot camp and her for me...but when i got out for some reason my mind changed and I dumped her outright...I still don't know why I did that to this day and I still kick myself...she was everything I ever dreamed of...all I can say is take it slow and don't put the cart before the horse.
 
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