I'm an 18 year old senior girl in high school and my mom passed away January 5th after a 2 year battle with cancer. My guidance counselor has been there for me the entire time, but I'm having a really hard time talking to him about what bothers me most because it makes me upset and I don't want to be upset. I really want to talk to him about how hard it was over winter break and what hospice was like even though telling him doesn't change what happened and I doubt he will even understand what I am saying because I'll be crying so hard. I just want to talk to him about it because it still bothers me. Usually when I go to talk about it I either forget my words or just don't feel like it. Since nothing can change what it was like is it a conversation worth having? Should I email him so I can't forget or chicken out?
Also he has an intern. In the email can I ask that he has the intern leave because it is so awkward that I'll be sitting there crying and he will just be watching. He has already told me that if I am not comfortable with him, my counselor will have him go somewhere else. Thanks in advance.
I don't care that he's a boy. He is crazy comforting.
Also he has an intern. In the email can I ask that he has the intern leave because it is so awkward that I'll be sitting there crying and he will just be watching. He has already told me that if I am not comfortable with him, my counselor will have him go somewhere else. Thanks in advance.
I don't care that he's a boy. He is crazy comforting.