I have no problem having sex, but it doesn’t turn me on. In a way, this could be construed as a plus since I don’t ejaculate, meaning I can go on and on. I get off from a few fetishes, but this would require the girl to be into them (it doesn’t work if she is humoring me), and meeting someone I like is a lot more important to me than meeting someone who turns me on.
Can I date if I don’t get off from sex? Will the girl be able to tell if I come or not? Will a girl be willing to accept that I don’t get off if she really likes me? The funny thing is, I am perfectly happy to have sex to get a girl off and consider it a small “price” to pay for having a cool girlfriend.
Please don’t tell me to date a religious girl or someone frigid…I have had enough problems dating religious types in the past (I’m an atheist).
I'm not asexual...it's just that intercourse doesn't turn me on. Other things do.
I don't want to restrict my dating pool to the few girls into my fetishes. Having a cool girlfriend is much more important to me than having one who can get me off.
Can I date if I don’t get off from sex? Will the girl be able to tell if I come or not? Will a girl be willing to accept that I don’t get off if she really likes me? The funny thing is, I am perfectly happy to have sex to get a girl off and consider it a small “price” to pay for having a cool girlfriend.
Please don’t tell me to date a religious girl or someone frigid…I have had enough problems dating religious types in the past (I’m an atheist).
I'm not asexual...it's just that intercourse doesn't turn me on. Other things do.
I don't want to restrict my dating pool to the few girls into my fetishes. Having a cool girlfriend is much more important to me than having one who can get me off.