bluebreezz
New member
i hope it is not too confusing:
i m 26 - female
there is this older married guy and his wife who was good friends with me. they use to talk to me, laugh, ask me a favor or two. now suddenly he is not talking to me, only his wife is talking to me. i wonder what did i do to him. when he does say something to me or even greet me, it is either for me to help with something very important, or he just say a very short and sharp sarcastic comment then walk off, never to speak with me for a long time and so on it goes. now there is this new lady that is a bit older than than me. she seems nice. she and i became great friends. but then the guy and his wife started to make close friendship with this lady and the three of them is now buddy buddy. but i am is still friends with this lady. but whenever this lady has a problem, he is there to help her. he never did this for me. although he tired few time to assist me, i never take his help...then later came up and made sarcastic remark, put his hand on her head..then walk away
but, i don't get this guy's behavior. yes i know he ignores me for reasons i don't know. i am friends with him and his wife. and he is acting even more strange wit all his sarcastic remarks. recently, we all attended a seminar. and during the break, he came up to me making witty remark about me taking enough notes for everyone. i know he is being clever bcuz he always criticize people for taking a lot of notes when he thinks they are not paying attention to the speaker. so i was like "no..only took notes fo me", while he was walking aways with clever smile, then he doubled back, and said "what was that"...so i repeated my statement..then he walk away.
well, lately, he has been asking me for favors...i dont really want to help him...but he has been asking me somethings about work issue...anyway, i try to answer him best i can..just wishing he not talk to me...so the other lady seem upset with him, i dont know why, he is still acting flirty to her, in my view of things now his wife seems quiet towards me.
i dont bother him or anything, so i don't see why he needs to go out of his way to treat me like this
then tonight, he was staring at me from a distance...was so uncomfortable...did not know what to think..actually i wondered if it was bcuz his lady friend was not there..anyway, i greeted his wife and ignored him.
THIS IS NOT A SITUATION AT WORK...I NEVER GAVE ANY SIGNAL OF INTEREST IN HIM EITHER.
ITS NOT LIKE I AM HANGING AROUND HIM.
WHAT DO YOU THINK IS HIS PROBLEM?
HOW CAN HE THINKS I TALK TOO MUCH, AND WE DONT TALK TO EACH OTHER...AT LEAST, I DONT TALK WITH HIM
WE DONT TALK TO EACH OTHER...AT LEAST, I DONT TALK WITH HIM
i m 26 - female
there is this older married guy and his wife who was good friends with me. they use to talk to me, laugh, ask me a favor or two. now suddenly he is not talking to me, only his wife is talking to me. i wonder what did i do to him. when he does say something to me or even greet me, it is either for me to help with something very important, or he just say a very short and sharp sarcastic comment then walk off, never to speak with me for a long time and so on it goes. now there is this new lady that is a bit older than than me. she seems nice. she and i became great friends. but then the guy and his wife started to make close friendship with this lady and the three of them is now buddy buddy. but i am is still friends with this lady. but whenever this lady has a problem, he is there to help her. he never did this for me. although he tired few time to assist me, i never take his help...then later came up and made sarcastic remark, put his hand on her head..then walk away
but, i don't get this guy's behavior. yes i know he ignores me for reasons i don't know. i am friends with him and his wife. and he is acting even more strange wit all his sarcastic remarks. recently, we all attended a seminar. and during the break, he came up to me making witty remark about me taking enough notes for everyone. i know he is being clever bcuz he always criticize people for taking a lot of notes when he thinks they are not paying attention to the speaker. so i was like "no..only took notes fo me", while he was walking aways with clever smile, then he doubled back, and said "what was that"...so i repeated my statement..then he walk away.
well, lately, he has been asking me for favors...i dont really want to help him...but he has been asking me somethings about work issue...anyway, i try to answer him best i can..just wishing he not talk to me...so the other lady seem upset with him, i dont know why, he is still acting flirty to her, in my view of things now his wife seems quiet towards me.
i dont bother him or anything, so i don't see why he needs to go out of his way to treat me like this
then tonight, he was staring at me from a distance...was so uncomfortable...did not know what to think..actually i wondered if it was bcuz his lady friend was not there..anyway, i greeted his wife and ignored him.
THIS IS NOT A SITUATION AT WORK...I NEVER GAVE ANY SIGNAL OF INTEREST IN HIM EITHER.
ITS NOT LIKE I AM HANGING AROUND HIM.
WHAT DO YOU THINK IS HIS PROBLEM?
HOW CAN HE THINKS I TALK TOO MUCH, AND WE DONT TALK TO EACH OTHER...AT LEAST, I DONT TALK WITH HIM
WE DONT TALK TO EACH OTHER...AT LEAST, I DONT TALK WITH HIM