ive always been pretty popular but whenever i go to like a school danceor party aand theres dancing and girls i usually just find myself standing around with a couple other friends. i know the whole be confident just let loose and have fun dont be afraid to act dumb but that never seems to work. i have no clue what to do on a dance floor and i never really can get a dance with a girl. im not ugly by any means ive had a few girlfriends and im pretty interesting im not boring or personality-less or anything. but for some reason i just cant pick up a girl or get a dance with one. i mean mostgirls i ask to dance with probly would buti can tell theyd rather not. so can anyone give me some help. im tired of going to dances and feeling awkward and standing on the side, i dont wana be the life of the party or like in the middle of the crowd or anything but id like to be able to hold my own with like the girls (who are always dancing and having a ggood time and on the dance floor) and guys. id like to atleast no some basic moves like i can jerk (reject) but thats about it. and some help with talking to girls would be nice too like not neccessarily a pick up line but atleast some good topics to talk about, for high schoolers. something that will be good with starting a conversation im pretty funny i can be pretty sarcastic so maybe something that i could be sarcastic about. i know this is probly a pretty tough question but anyhelp is EXTREMELY GREATLY APPRECIATED!!!!!! thank you and i will choose a best answer so a good answer is worth the points! 