Angela Healy
New member
...are really rude and dont? like me . I have tried everything to be nice always ask them to our house buy there kids presents make them dinner etc . There is no reason why they shouldn't like me my husband was away from their mother for ten years before I met him . They take all the presents and money my husband and I give them , they have never even gave my husband or I as much as a xmas or birthday card , A friend of mine has told me she heard one of them saying she hated me at a gathering , she did correct her though telling her she has no reason to hate me as I am a nice person and shouldn't be treated like this . These adult children are all over 25 . Anyway they have finally got their way because my husband took there side once again this week and I cant take it no more . I would never allow my adult children to treat him like the way they treat me and they always acknowledge my husband buying him gifts and things for birthdays etc treating him no different from me . I have told my husband if he doesn't start standing by me we should split . We haven't spoken for three days now and he agrees we should says he does not want us to but theres nothing he can do about the children and he wont choose . Im just sick of the whole thing any suggestions on how to save my marriage .